June 29 2025
The heart of a Rust City Group is to care for people and carry the culture of Rust City Church.
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ICEBREAKER QUESTION OPTION:
Beach or pool, which do you prefer?
Christian-ish: PART 5
SPEAKER: PASTOR Wes Washington
Scriptures—
Genesis 3:12; James 1:14-15; II Corinthians 10:4-5; Romans 12:2
Key Takeaways—
Christians often play the "blame game" instead of taking responsibility for their actions
Unchecked desires lead to unhealthy decisions and ultimately to sin
We must discipline our thoughts and desires to live a Spirit-led life
Renewing our minds through Scripture and prayer is crucial for spiritual growth
There's a difference between God's punishment and sin’s consequences
Submitting to God and stopping blame is essential for healing and transformation
Discussion Questions—
Can you think of a time when you blamed someone else for a situation that was partly your responsibility?
Why is taking responsibility so difficult, even when we know it’s the right thing?
How does understanding the difference between God’s punishment and natural consequences change how we interpret difficult situations in our lives?
Can you think of a time when you experienced a consequence that helped shape your faith?
The sermon says, "You can't live a spirit-led life with flesh-fed desires." What does that mean to you personally?
How do our thought patterns influence our spiritual lives?
The pastor emphasized renewing our minds. What does that practically look like for you?
Practical application—
This week, keep a journal of recurring negative thoughts. Practice "taking them captive" by writing down a corresponding truth from Scripture.
Choose a trusted friend or group member to be your accountability partner. Share one area where you struggle with blame, and commit to checking in with each other regularly over the summer.
Closing Prayer—
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for Your grace that meets us right where we are and never gives up on us. Thank You for the gift of growth—for the ways You shape us through both joy and correction. We ask for Your help in owning our missteps with humility and courage. Teach us to take responsibility with hearts open to transformation. Renew our minds by the truth of Your Word. Help us reject old patterns and step boldly into the life You’ve called us to live.
In Jesus' name, Amen.
